“The ancestor of every action is a thought”- Ralph Waldo Emerson If we take control of our own communication with ourselves and produce visual, auditory and kinesthetic signals of what we do want, out-standing positive results can be consistently produced, even in situations where the odds for success seem limited or nonexistent. Some days back my eight year old brought his art homework, sounding a bit tepid. As I had been a little critical of his art work earlier. He declared that out of three topics he had to submit 4-5 themes of any one of the topic in a week’s time. Asking what the topics were, he mentioned: A Birthday Party, My Pet and Aliens. The next question was to choose a topic which according to my rating he could do without much assistance, pat came the reply, “I’ll do, My Pet, cause, have done earlier so will repeat again.” Beware of believing that the way to change behavior is to first change attitudes. Attitudes tend to be the result of behavior, not the cause o...